J. surprised me by drawing a bath for me last night. He added some special body soak, played some soothing instrumental music, and only disturbed me when I had fallen asleep and snored long enough to make my throat sore. The kids were all asleep. I wasn't disturbed even once by a whining child. I think I slept better last night than I have in a long, long time (or at least since J. went on second shift).
Thank you J. I love you!